A list compiled by Ugandan seminarian Kiberu
George.
Love
sinners, but hate their deeds, and do not disdain sinners for their failings,
so that you yourself do not fall into the temptation in which they abide… Do
not be angry at anyone and do not hate anyone, neither for their faith, nor for
their shameful deeds… Do not foster hatred for the sinner, for we are all
guilty… Hate his sins, and pray for him, so that you may be made like unto
Christ, who had no dislike for sinners, but prayed for them.
(St. Isaac the Syrian, Homily 57,90)
Find evil
in yourself and not in other people or things, wherewith you have not learned
how to relate properly. This is how a child relates with fire or a knife: he
burns himself, he cuts himself.
(St. Sebastian of Karaganda)
A brother
asked an elder: If I see my brother fall into sin, is good to hide him? The
Elder answered: When, out of love, we hide the sin of our brother, then God
also hides our sins; but when we show our brother’s sin before others, then God
also makes our sins known to people.
(Ancient Patericon, 9.9)
Do not
lose your temper with those who sin. Do not have a passion for noticing every
sin in your neighbor and judging it, as we usually do. Everyone will give an
answer for himself before God. Especially, do not look with evil intention on
the sins of those older than you, with whom you have no business. But correct
your own sins, your own heart.
(St. John of Kronstadt, My Life in Christ,
I.6)
If you
see your neighbor in sin, don’t look only at this, but also think about what he
has done or does that is good, and infrequently trying this in general, while
not partialy judging, you will find that he is better than you.
(St. Basil the Great, Conversations, 20)
If you
see a man who has sinned and you do not pity him, the grace of God will leave
you. Whoever curses bad people, and does not pray for them, will never come to
know the grace of God.
(St. Silouan the Athonite, Writings, VII.4,
VIII.6)
One who
strictly prosecutes the misdemeanors of others will find not condescension
towards his own.
(St. John Chrysostom, On the Statutes, 3.6)
By Fr.
Silouan
Thompson
Source:
http://silouanthompson.net/2017/06/how-to-respond-to-the-sins-of-others/
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