Personal Stories: Living in Romania, praying for the world...
There are 197 states in the world today.
Information about each of them is readily available at the click of a
mouse button. However, reading is one thing and listening to a person who lives
in that country is another thing. More often than not, information you get from
these two sources will be different.
As I was getting ready for my interview with Mihai Gavrilă, our guest
from Romania, I read that there is a tradition in many Romanian monasteries to
weave carpets because people always kneel for prayer and therefore, church
floors are covered with carpets.
Mihai smiled, «No, no, not necessarily. However, people don't kiss the
Chalice after communion, unlike people in Belarus. Our choirs use Byzantine
chant. There is a different chant in your Convent, and it is beautiful. I could
comprehend many prayers».
Our guest told me that people in Romania bake cakes not only for Pascha
but also for Dormition and the Nativity of Christ. Interestingly enough, the
Romanian Church adopted the Gregorian calendar but they celebrate Pascha on the
same day that we do.
I read that Romanians honour
their customs and often wear traditional clothes.
There are few families nowadays who have preserved the traditional
clothes that our ancestors wore. People tend to think that these clothes are of
no use anymore. Nowadays, traditional clothes are made by machines not people.
There is no warmth of human hands in them. With that said, people do their best
to wear traditional clothes on Pascha and Nativity.
Mihai, how did you
learn about our Convent? Why did you decide to come here?
A friend of mine came to your convent last year to improve his metal
worker's skills. I followed into his footsteps.
I spent a lot of time working in an office behind closed doors, with
artificial light and in front of a computer screen. At a certain point, I
realised that you cannot speak of spiritual life under these conditions: you
are isolated and you never see the results of your effort. In addition, money
cannot be the ultimate goal in and of itself. Money becomes the purpose in life
for many people. They focus on working in an office, being a white-collar
employee, and earning more and more money.
On the contrary, I wanted to see the results of my own labour. An icon
painter will see the icon he painted, a metal worker will see the cross he made
but what will I see?
So my spiritual father asked me, «Would you like to learn a craft»?
During my stay at the Convent, I managed to visit the rehabilitation
centre, to see mosaic artists work but I did not have the opportunity to take
part in the creative process.
You were upset, weren't you?
I came here following God's will. Why would I be upset? I found new
friends to drink tea and to attend Liturgies and the boarding home with. This
is a valuable experience for me because I used to visit nursing homes in
Romania. The one most essential thing for me here is divine worship and
prayers.
Mihai, you came to Belarus not
from Romania but from Belgium, didn't you? What do you have in common with this
country?
It was an Erasmus university exchange that helped me to go to Belgium
for the first time in 2011. Later, I returned to Romania, graduated from a
university and then went back to Belgium thanks to another exchange programme.
My first spiritual father in Romania recommended another spiritual
father in Belgium to me. Currently, Father Ciprian is my spiritual father.
There are 150-200 members in our community. These people have become my second
family — a spiritual one. Romanians who are scattered around Belgium come to
our church dedicated to All Saints in the centre of Belgium for the Divine
Liturgy on Sundays and feasts, for conferences on spiritual topics and for
personal events (to get matried, baptised, etc.). In fact, we live as a
community, meeting in total several times per week plus community pilgrimages.
This is a community because people who wanted more prayer (Romanians attending
a big cathedral in Brussels mostly) found themselves organised around a
spiritual father (Fr Ciprian) who led this small flock to organise itself now
in one of the more vibrant Orthodox communities in the Western Europe. People
were united around their need for prayer and a spiritual father with the will
for building a strong community who led us towards this against all odds. God
provided a place for us, too: our church dedicated to All Saints is our «home»
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Sometimes you can see Orthodox churches within a walking distance from
each other in Romania but I never felt how crucial it was before I went abroad.
We have so many churches, so many opportunities, that people often do not
appreciate enough. Being able to go to church is a great opportunity and a true
God’s miracle. When you travel abroad, when you see what happens in the West
when people don't believe in anything, when they wander astray, when they do
strange things, you begin to see what is really important.
So you live in Romania and travel
to Belgium for confession? Is that right?
Yes, I go to Belgium about five times a year. Anyway, I maintain a close
relationship with Fr Ciprian and I can call him at any time, because a
spiritual father is the person who assumes you and you assume him in the sense
that he suffers the pains of your spiritual birth. You can confess in any
church — there are many priests — but I can submit my spiritual well-being only
into the hands of my spiritual father. I pray for my spiritual father and I
know that he prays for me.
I would like to tell you about our tradition — the Candlelight Prayer.
Our spiritual father in Belgium suggested that we, his spiritual children and
members of that community, take turns praying for each other and for the world.
We constantly pray for people who need help.
Prisoners in Pitești practised this kind of prayer in late 1950s and our
spiritual father was moved by this and proposed it to us. They took turns
praying in their cells. Prisoners in other penal facilities across the country
adopted this innovation. Later, quite a few of these prisoners were martyred
and became victims of the violent attempt of Communist government at their
«re-education». Currently, these candlelight prayers started not only in
Romania but also around the whole world (Europe, USA, Canada, and even in
Japan).
Elder Ephraim from Vatopedi Monastery on Mt Athos blessed a translation
of the Candlelight Prayer into many languages, so that people from around the
world could join this prayer.
We have launched a website devoted to this prayer
http://www.candelar.ro/en/. I hope that this prayer for the entire world will
sound in your country, too.
Your story is amazing and
noteworthy. I hope that this prayer for the entire world will sound in all
languages. Let's get back to your home country. Can you tell us about your
people? What is it that makes you love your country?
Yes, economically speaking, it is hard to live in Romania. Media have
tried to convince us that Romania isn't a country you would want to live in and
that Western Europe is a paradise. However, when you go there, you realise that
things aren't as good as they were advertised to be. I would like my children
to live in Romania.
A friend of mine says, «You can't stop being a Romanian as long as you
are alive».
You have ancestors and you live on their land, so you have to pray for
them.
If everyone suddenly decides to get rich and leave the country, who will
remain here and continue to pray for our ancestors? Who will pray for me when I
die? Who will pray for me not only during my lifetime, but also in the
afterlife?
A pious but not yet canonised priest used to say that you would be
judged on Judgement Day not just as a human being but also as a representative
of your nation. You cannot separate yourself from your past and from your
nation.
By Vadim Yanchuk
CONVERSATION
Wedding at Cana
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Wedding at Cana Icon |
“And the third day there was a
marriage in Cana of Galilee; and the mother of Jesus was there:And both Jesus
was called, and his disciples, to the marriage.And when they wanted wine, the
mother of Jesus saith unto him, They have no wine. Jesus saith unto her, Woman,
what have I to do with thee? mine hour is not yet come.His mother saith unto
the servants, Whatsoever he saith unto you, do it.And there were set there six
waterpots of stone, after the manner of the purifying of the Jews, containing
two or three firkins apiece. Jesus saith unto them, Fill the waterpots with
water. And they filled them up to the brim.And he saith unto them, Draw out
now, and bear unto the governor of the feast. And they bare it.When the ruler
of the feast had tasted the water that was made wine, and knew not whence it
was: (but the servants which drew the water knew;) the governor of the feast
called the bridegroom, And saith unto him, Every man at the beginning doth set
forth good wine; and when men have well drunk, then that which is worse: but
thou hast kept the good wine until now. This beginning of miracles did Jesus in
Cana of Galilee, and manifested forth his glory; and his disciples believed on
him” (John 2: 1-11).
CONVERSATION
THE IMPORTANCE OF FASTING AND ITS OBSERVANCE TODAY (From the Official Documents of the Holy and Great Council of the Orthodox Church)
(From the Official Documents of the Holy and Great Council of the Orthodox Church)
1. Fasting is a
divine commandment (Gen 2:16-17). According to Basil the Great, fasting is as
old as humanity itself; it was prescribed in paradise (On Fasting, 1, 3.
PG 31, 168A). It is a great spiritual endeavor and the foremost expression
of the Orthodox ascetic ideal. The Orthodox Church, in strict conformity with
the apostolic precepts, the synodal canons, and the patristic tradition as a
whole, has always proclaimed the great significance of fasting for our
spiritual life and salvation. The annual liturgical cycle reflects the entire
patristic teaching on fasting, the teaching on constant and unceasing
watchfulness of the human person, and our participation in spiritual struggles.
Accordingly, the Triodion praises fasting as grace that is full of light, as an
invincible weapon, the beginning of spiritual struggles, the perfect path of
virtues, the nourishment for the soul, the source of all wisdom, life
imperishable, an imitation of the angelic life, the mother of all good things
and virtues.
2. As an ancient
institution, fasting was mentioned already in the Old Testament (Deut 9:18; Is
58:4-10; Joel 2:15; Jonah 3:5-7) and affirmed in the New Testament. The Lord
Himself fasted for forty days before commencing His public ministry (Lk 4:1-2)
and provided instructions on how to practice fasting (Mt 6:16-18). Fasting is
generally prescribed in the New Testament as a means of abstinence, repentance,
and spiritual edification (Mk 1:6; Acts 13:2; 14:23; Rom 14:21). Since the
apostolic times, the Church has proclaimed the profound importance of fasting
and established Wednesday and Friday as days of fasting (Didache 8,
1), as well as the fast before Pascha (Irenaeus of Lyons, as cited in Eusebius, Church
History 5, 24. PG 20 497B-508AB). In ecclesiastical practice that has
existed for centuries, there has always been diversity with regard not only to
the length of the fast before Easter (Dionysius of Alexandria, Letter
to Basilides, PG 10, 1277), but also the number and content of other
periods of fasting which became customary under the influence of various
factors, primarily, of the liturgical and monastic traditions, with a view to
proper preparation for the great feasts. Thus, the indissoluble link between fasting
and worship indicates the extent and purpose of fasting and reveals its
spiritual nature. For this reason, all the faithful are invited to respond
accordingly, each to the best of his or her strength and ability, while not
allowing such liberty to diminish this holy institution: “See that no
one make thee to err from this path of doctrine… If thou art able to bear the
whole yoke of the Lord, thou wilt be perfect; but if thou art not able, what
thou art able, that do. But concerning meat, bear that which thou art able to
do”(Didache 6, 1-3).
3. As a spiritual
endeavor, the true fast is inseparable from unceasing prayer and genuine
repentance. Repentance without fasting is fruitless (Basil the Great, On
Fasting 1, 3. PG 31, 168A), as fasting without merciful deeds
is dead, especially nowadays when the unequal and unjust distribution of goods
deprives entire nations of their daily bread. “While fasting
physically, brethren, let us also fast spiritually. Let us loose every knot of
iniquity; let us tear up every unrighteous bond; let us distribute bread to the
hungry, and welcome into our homes those who have no roof over their heads…” (Sticheron at
Vespers on Wednesday of the First Week of Lent; cf. Is 58:6-7). Fasting cannot
be reduced to simple and formal abstinence from certain foods. “So let
us not be selfish as we begin the abstinence from foods that is the noble fast.
Let us fast in an acceptable manner, one that is pleasing to God. A true fast
is one that is set against evil, it is self-control of the tongue. It is the
checking of anger, separation from things like lusts, evil-speaking, lies, and
false oaths. Self-denial from these things is a true fast, so fasting from
these negative things is good” (Basil the Great, On Fasting,
2, 7. PG 31, 196D). Abstinence from certain foods during the fast and
temperance, not only with regard to what to eat but also how much to eat,
constitutes a visible aspect of this spiritual endeavor. “In the
literal sense, fasting is abstinence from food, but food makes us neither more
nor less righteous. However, in the spiritual sense, it is clear that, as life
comes from food for each of us and the lack of food is a symbol of death, so it
is necessary that we fast from worldly things, in order that we might die to
the world and after this, having partaken of the divine nourishment, live in
God” (Clement of Alexandria, From the Prophetic Eclogae.
PG 9, 704D-705A). Therefore, the true fast affects the entire life in Christ of
the faithful and is crowned by their participation in divine worship,
particularly in the sacrament of the Holy Eucharist.
4. The forty-day
fast of the Lord exemplifies fasting for the faithful, initiating their
participation in the obedience in the Lord, that through it “we might
recover by its observance that which we have lost by not observing it” (Gregory
the Theologian, Homily 45, On Holy Pascha, 28. PG 36, 661C).
The Christocentric understanding of the spiritual dimension of fasting
– in particular the fast of Great Lent – is a general rule in the
entire patristic tradition and is characteristically epitomized by St Gregory
Palamas: “When you fast like this you not only suffer with Christ and
are dead with Him, but you are also risen with Him and reign with Him forever
and ever. If through such a fast you have been planted together in the likeness
of His death, you shall also share in His resurrection and inherit life in Him” (Homily
13, On the Fifth Sunday of Lent, PG 151, 161AB).
5. According to the
Orthodox Tradition, the “measure of spiritual perfection is the measure
of the stature of the fullness of Christ” (Eph 4:13), and all who want
to attain this should strive and grow accordingly. For this very reason, ascesis and
spiritual struggle, like the refinement of the perfect, are endless in this
life. Everyone is called to strive, to the best of his or her abilities, to
reach the lofty Orthodox standard, which is the goal of deification by grace.
Indeed, while they should do all things that they were commanded, they should
nonetheless never vaunt themselves, but confess that “they are
unprofitable servants and have only done that which was their duty to do” (Lk
17:10). According to the Orthodox understanding of the spiritual life, all
people are obligated to maintain the good struggle of the fast; however, in a
spirit of self-reproach and humble recognition of their condition, they must
rely upon God’s mercy for their shortcomings, inasmuch as the Orthodox
spiritual life is unattainable without the spiritual struggle of the fast.
6. Like a nurturing
mother, the Orthodox Church has defined what is beneficial for people’s
salvation and established the holy periods of fasting as God-given protection
in the believers’ new life in Christ against every snare of the enemy.
Following the example of the Holy Fathers, the Church preserves today, as she
did in the past, the holy apostolic precepts, synodal canons, and sacred
traditions, always advancing the holy fasts as the perfect ascetic path for the
faithful leading to spiritual perfection and salvation, while proclaiming the necessity
to observe all the fasts throughout the year, namely, the fasts of Great Lent,
Wednesdays and Fridays, testified in the sacred canons, as well as the fasts of
the Nativity, the Holy Apostles, and the Dormition of the Theotokos; there are
also the single-day fasts on the Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross, on
the eve of the Epiphany, and on the day commemorating the Beheading of John the
Baptist, in addition to the fasts established for pastoral reasons or observed
at the desire of the faithful.
7. The Church,
however, has also established, with pastoral discernment, boundaries of
philanthropic dispensation (oikonomia) concerning the rules of fasting.
In this regard, the Church has considered physical infirmity, extreme
necessity, and difficult times where she has ordained the application of the
principle of ecclesiastical oikonomia, through the responsible
discernment and pastoral care of the body of bishops in the local Churches.
8. It is a fact
that many faithful today do not observe all the prescriptions of fasting,
whether due to faint-heartedness or their living conditions, whatever these may
be. However, all these instances where the sacred prescriptions of fasting are
loosened, either in general or in particular instances, should be treated by
the Church with pastoral care, “for God has no pleasure in the death of
the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live” (Ezek
33:11), without, however, ignoring the value of the fast. Therefore, with
regard to those who find it difficult to observe the prevailing guidelines for
fasting, whether for personal reasons (illness, military service, conditions of
work, etc.) or general reasons (particular existing conditions in certain
regions with regard to climate, as well as socioeconomic circumstances, i.e.,
inability to find lenten foods), it is left to the discretion of the local
Orthodox Churches to determine how to exercise philanthropic oikonomia and
empathy, relieving in these special cases the “burden” of the holy fast. All
this should take place within the aforementioned context and with the objective
of not diminishing the importance of the sacred institution of fasting. The
Church should extend her philanthropic dispensation with prudence, undoubtedly
to a greater extent when it comes to those fasts, on which the ecclesiastical
tradition and practice have not always been uniform. “It is good to
fast, but may the one who fasts not blame the one who does not fast. In such
matters you must neither legislate, nor use force, nor compel the flock
entrusted to you; instead, you must use persuasion, gentleness and a word
seasoned with salt”(John of Damascus, On the Holy Fasts, Homily 3,
PG 95, 68 B).
9. Fasting for
three or more days prior to Holy Communion is left to the discretion of the
piety of the faithful, according to the words of Saint Nicodemus the Hagiorite: “…
fasting before partaking of Communion is not decreed by the divine Canons.
Nevertheless, those who are able to fast even a whole week before it, are doing
the right thing” (Commentary of the 13th canon of Sixth
Ecumenical Council, Pedalion – English translation 307). However, the
totality of the Church’s faithful must observe the holy fasts and the
abstinence from food from midnight for frequent participation in Holy Communion,
which is the most profound expression of the essence of the Church. The
faithful should become accustomed to fasting as an expression of repentance, as
the fulfillment of a spiritual pledge, to achieve a particular spiritual end in
times of temptation, in conjunction with supplications to God, for adults
approaching the sacrament of baptism, prior to ordination, in cases where
penance is imposed, as well as during pilgrimages and other similar instances.
† Bartholomew of
Constantinople, Chairman
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Alexandria
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Jerusalem
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Serbia
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Romania
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of Cyprus
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Athens and All Greece
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and All Poland
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Tirana, Durres and All Albania
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Presov, the Czech Lands and Slovakia
Delegation of
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Metropolitan John of Pergamon
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Archbishop Demetrios of America
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Crete
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Diokleia
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Nyssa, Head of the Carpatho-Russian Orthodox in the USA
Delegation of
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of Tripoli
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Guinea
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Brazzaville and Gabon
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Philadelphia
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Constantine
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of Jordan
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Anthidon
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Pella
Delegation of
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and Skopje
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Montenegro and the Littoral
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Gracanica
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Valjevo
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Australia and New Zealand
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Krusevac
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Slavonija
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Frankfurt and in Germany
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Timok
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the Church of Romania
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Sibiu and Transylvania
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Feleac, Cluj, Alba, Crisana and Maramures
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Craiova and Oltenia
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Germany and Central Europe
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Targoviste
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Iulia
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Roman and Bacau
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Lower Danube
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Arad
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America
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Oradea
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Strehaia and Severin
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Tulcea
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Salaj
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Hungary
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Italy
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Spain and Portugal
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Northern Europe
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Ploiesteanul, Assistant Bishop to the Patriarch
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Lovisteanul, Assistant Bishop to the Archdiocese of Ramnic
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Paphos
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of Kition
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of Kyrenia
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Limassol
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Ledra
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Chytron
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Neapolis
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Mesaoria
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Eleia
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Mantineia and Kynouria
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Arta
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Didymoteixon, Orestias and Soufli
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Alexandroupolis
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Neapolis and Stavroupolis
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Lagkada, Litis and Rentinis
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Ionia and Philadelphia
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the Church of Poland
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and Poznan
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Siemiatycze
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Gorlice
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the Church of Albania
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Koritsa
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Argyrokastron
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Apollonia and Fier
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Elbasan
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Amantia
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the Church of the Czech lands and Slovakia
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